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Unfollow: A Memoir of Loving and Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church

 for the IMpower Book Club hosted by

Interfaith Ministries for Greater Houston

on September 30, 2020!

Praise for Unfollow

“[Megan's] intelligence and compassion shine throughout with electric prose...”

— Publishers Weekly (starred review)

“Wildly brave and incredibly thoughtful...This book will leave you holding your heart.”

— Sarah Silverman

“From her story, we can learn things sorely needed in our age: empathy, openness, and how we can best build bridges across divided lines.”

— Chris Anderson, Head of TED

“It is, quite simply, exactly what the world needs right now.”

— Mark Duplass

“If you want to see how a girl raised on religious fanaticism and sectarian hatred can be cured by the power of honest reasoning, read this book.”

— Sam Harris

“This is a beautiful, gripping book about a singular soul and an unexpected redemption.”

 — Nick Hornby



Life inside "America's most hated family"

At the age of five, Megan Phelps-Roper began protesting homosexuality and other alleged vices alongside members of the Westboro Baptist Church. Founded by her grandfather and consisting almost entirely of her extended family, the tiny group would gain worldwide notoriety for its pickets at military funerals and celebrations of death and tragedy.


As Phelps-Roper grew up, she saw that church members were close companions and accomplished debaters, applying the logic of predestination and the language of the King James Bible to everyday life with aplomb—which, as the church’s Twitter spokeswoman, she learned to do with great skill. Soon, however, dialogue on Twitter caused her to begin doubting the church’s leaders and message. As she digitally jousted with critics, she started to wonder if sometimes they had a point—and then she began exchanging messages with a man who would help change her life.

A gripping memoir of escaping extremism and falling in love, Unfollow relates Phelps-Roper’s moral awakening, her departure from the church, and how she exchanged the absolutes she grew up with for new forms of warmth and community. Rich with suspense and thoughtful reflection, Phelps-Roper’s life story exposes the dangers of black-and-white thinking and the need for true humility in a time of angry polarization.